When we ponder over certain things , sometimes it become quite fascinating especially when it deals with Children.Observing their movements,their actions is much surprising things to me.I can state their action as divine because whatever they do is irrespective of hatred, jealousy or any premonition.
May this article of mine appear ancedote to you but after reading you will find it relating in quite fascinating.Here I go..
Have u ever seen any child holding hand of guardian(more better parents)or any guardian grasping hand of there children.(Here I am not going to mention the age ..U will come to know as u will read).It appears utmost same but their is minute and meaningful difference between them.Let us justify this by two situations.
first one is crowded place like Disney land , market place , any type of fair etc.In these types of places a child is tempted by pleothra of things and he wants to a be freed to have a closer look at the things.so what’s the parent do ? What’s their greatest fear? Do they leave their child to do whatever they want? Certainly not.They clutch child’s hand in their own and the way in which they do this is also notifiable.Parents either hold their four fingers in their own hand or hold their wrist.This action is a source of content for parents whereas it is contempt for that child.Anyway parents cannot be blamed for this because this action is involuntary one.
The 2nd situation is a child , who intended to go park in the morning with his father.Father wasn’t reluctant also because in the meantime mother can do household chores and also the child could see the world outside the four walls.Hence the agreement is done.Child is all set to go outside.In the park, child sees numerous people , unfamiliar one.Here childhood fear comes.Also since he could not match the walking pace of his father , he run to catch the hand of father.Someone of u will argue that Can child not play ?They can only play if they get friend , I think.it is also interesting to note here the manner of holding the hands.It is more decent and heart touching.The best possible way I have seen is the parent opening full length of finger just besides the thumb and child grasping it in they way that finger kindly fit in the fist of child.Similar kind of situation u will find when he goes to school.In this case parents want to free his child but they feel safe in their father hand.
Observing the above two situations I drew a conclusion that it is our parents who render support in our difficult times.they prohibit us from going wrong way sometimes holding our hands and sometimes by scolding us whereas we need support of our parents to move forward in our life by helping us in numerous ways.They are every time their to support us.So is it that with our presence , they need stick to support themselves in sunset of their age? I don’t think so.
when father hold hand at that moment the fealing we get is unexplanable
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Yup bro!
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